Garden State Gay Socials

🎉 Garden State Gay Socials: Where Gay Men Come to Connect, Laugh & Celebrate Pride Together 🌈

There’s something powerful about being in a space where you don’t have to explain who you are. A space where you can walk in, take a deep breath, and know — you’re among people who get it. That’s exactly what Garden State Gay Socials is all about.

And now, we’re turning ONE — and we’re inviting YOU to celebrate with us. 🎂🎉

This isn’t just another event. This is New Jersey’s gay male social movement — built for real friendships, good food, fun games, and unforgettable moments. On Tuesday, May 27, we’re throwing our 1st Birthday Bash at Taqueria Los Güeros in East Rutherford, NJ, and we want you there.

Why? Because you’re not just a ticket number. You’re part of the story we’re building — one gay guy, one connection, one laugh at a time.

🌮 Skip the Club. Find Your People.

Let’s be real: not every gay man wants to party all night in a loud, crowded club. Some of us want something different. Something deeper.

We want:

• Real conversations

• Shared laughs over board games

• Delicious food

• A reason to show up — and a reason to stay

That’s what we’ve created with Garden State Gay Socials. We host events where gay men come not just to be seen — but to truly see each other.

Whether you're new to the area, newly out, or just looking to expand your circle beyond swipes and likes, our socials are built for connection.

🎲 So, What Happens at a Garden State Gay Social?

Glad you asked.

Our events are a blend of low-pressure fun and high-quality connection. Here's what you can expect at our 1st Birthday Bash:

✅ Board & Electronic Games – Whether you're a strategy king or a Mario Kart master, we’ve got something for you. Games are the perfect icebreaker.

✅ Amazing Food – Hosted at the cozy and colorful Taqueria Los Güeros, there’ll be tacos, margaritas, and all the flavors you love.

✅ Warm, Welcoming People – No cliques. No mean girl energy. Just cool, respectful guys looking to connect.

✅ Music, Balloons & Birthday Vibes – It is a party, after all. Expect some fun, festive Pride energy without the pressure of a packed club.

✅ A Safe Space for All Kinds of Gay Men – Introverts, extroverts, couples, singles, shy guys, talkers — you’re all welcome.

💬 We’re Building More Than a Social — We’re Building a Community

From day one, our mission has been simple: connect great men with great men.

At Garden State Gay Socials, we’re not here for ego trips or endless scrolling. We’re here to create real-life moments — the kind that build friendships, partnerships, collaborations, and memories.

You know that rare feeling when someone gets you? That spark of comfort when a stranger becomes a friend over a shared laugh? That’s what we do best.

Our events are about giving gay men the chance to be open, be seen, and be themselves in a space that celebrates authenticity.

🎥 The #GayNJFiesta Contest: Your Story, Your Voice

To make this birthday even more special, we’re launching the #GayNJFiesta video contest!

Here’s how it works:

1. Record a video (up to 1 minute) sharing what gay male friendship means to you.

2. Post it to your social media.

3. Use the hashtag: #GayNJFiesta

4. Attend the event — and you might just win something special 👀

It’s your chance to share your story, inspire others, and be part of something meaningful. Because your voice matters. Your friendships matter. And who knows — someone might watch your video and feel a little less alone because of it.

💥 Who Should Come?

This event is for you if:

• You’re tired of only meeting guys through dating apps

• You’ve just moved to NJ or NYC and want to meet real people

• You love tacos and good company (who doesn’t?)

• You miss the feeling of real friendships — or you’re ready to build new ones

• You’re proud to be gay and want to celebrate in a fun, relaxed, authentic way

Whether you’re in East Rutherford, Jersey City, NYC, or anywhere nearby — this is worth the Uber.

📍 The Details

🌈 What: Garden State Gay Socials 1st Birthday Bash
📅 When: Tuesday, May 27 • 6–9 PM
📍 Where: Taqueria Los Güeros – 93 NJ-17, East Rutherford, NJ
🎟️ RSVP: http://linktr.ee/gaynj
🎥 Contest: Submit your video using #GayNJFiesta

🧠 Why This Matters More Than Ever

In a time when digital connection is easy but emotional connection feels harder than ever, creating space for real friendships between gay men is revolutionary.

We live in a culture that too often tells us to be sexy, performative, or perfect — but Garden State Gay Socials says:

Be real. Be warm. Be you.

This event isn’t about showing off. It’s about showing up — for yourself, for each other, and for the community we’re building together.

✨ Come As You Are — And Leave With More Than You Expected

Some people will come for the tacos. Some for the games. Some to meet new friends or flirt a little. All good. But everyone who comes leaves feeling a little lighter — and a little more connected.

Because at the end of the day, what we all want is simple:

• A safe space

• A few laughs

• A new friend or two

• And a reason to feel like we belong

Garden State Gay Socials is your place for all of that — and more.

🎟️ Get Your Ticket Now — Before We Sell Out

Events like this don’t come around every weekend. And spots are limited.

So if you’re reading this and thinking, “I kinda want to go…” — don’t wait.

RSVP now → http://linktr.ee/gaynj

Tag your bestie. DM that guy you’ve been meaning to hang out with. Invite someone new. Or come solo — we’ll make sure you feel welcome.

This is more than a party.
It’s Pride with purpose.
And it won’t be the same without you.

We’ll see you May 27. 💖🌈🎲
— The Garden State Gay Socials Team

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To everyone who has attended a Garden State Gay Socials event, thank you. Your support, positivity, and openness have transformed this group into more than just a get-together; you’ve helped build a space where meaningful friendships and authentic connections flourish.

It’s incredibly rewarding to witness so many like-minded gay men come together—not just to socialize, but to share, grow, and uplift one another. Your presence and enthusiasm inspire me every time, and I’m deeply grateful for the trust and camaraderie you bring to each gathering.

With a background in computer engineering, marketing, video production, keynote speaking, and coaching, I’ve spent my career helping others become the best versions of themselves.

Recently, I hit a new milestone when a TikTok video I created went viral, reaching over 500,000 views in just a few days. You can watch it here: https://www.tiktok.com/@jcmacademy/video/7502814518955740462?lang=en. That experience reminded me of the power of connection, authenticity, and community—values we bring to every GSGS event.

Looking ahead, I’m more excited than ever about what we’re creating together. My goal is to continue hosting events that spark curiosity, nurture friendships, and foster a safe, welcoming space for gay men to connect, whether for friendship, collaboration, or shared passions.

At the heart of it all is a simple belief: real relationships fuel real growth. Many incredible friendships and partnerships have already blossomed at our events, and I’m committed to creating even more opportunities for them to flourish.

You're Invited to Our 1-Year Birthday Celebration!
Join us as Garden State Gay Socials turns ONE!
May 27, 2025 | 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM
Taqueria Los Güeros 93 NJ-17, East Rutherford, NJ 07073

Get your tickets, bring your energy, and join us in celebrating this incredible milestone with tacos, great vibes, and amazing company!

Check out all our upcoming events and follow us on social media to stay up-to-date. Our official website is coming soon—packed with updates, resources, and ways to get involved.

If you’re curious about my journey or would like to learn more about what I do, feel free to explore my work here: http://believemeachieve.com 

Whether you’re a longtime attendee or considering joining for the first time, know this: you're welcome, you're valued, and there’s a place for you here. Our events are more than just fun—they’re platforms for meaningful conversation, creativity, and opportunity.

Together, we’re not just building events—we’re building a vibrant, supportive community rooted in friendship, curiosity, and mutual growth.
Thank you again to everyone who has chosen to be part of the journey. To those who haven’t yet, this is your invitation to join in and be part of something incredible. The best is yet to come!

Warmest regards with gratitude
John C. Morley
Serial Entrepreneur & Proud Garden State Gay Social’s President