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The Best Christmas Present

Posted by John Ruzicka 

John recalls one of the best Christmases he ever had.

Anime Character Yuga Aoyama is Complex, Possibly Queer?

Posted by Jonny Kandell 

My favorite anime had a gay moment!

Dating Myself

Posted by John Ruzicka 

Love in the pre-computer age

Crying in the Church

Posted by John Ruzicka 

It’s Tuesday afternoon on a beautiful September day and I’m sitting alone in St. Thomas Church on 5th Avenue in New York City, crying that I can't have an orgasm. I’m still crying when I hear it. Random staccato notes on the pipe organ. I laugh, imagining a cat has broken into the organ room and is walking haphazardly across the keys. This isn’t how I expected my day to go, but here we are.

 

Revisiting Gay Representation in 'Secret Life'

Posted by Jonny Kandell 

The hit show from years ago has some rare moments of authentic gay representation!

Bisexual Icon Avatar Korra Joins Fortnite

Posted by Jonny Kandell 

Korra may live in a fictional world, but her presence in ours makes kids know that their skin color, culture, and sexuality only add to their badassery. And being that Fortnite skews younger, it's a great introduction to one of the coolest characters on TV who happens to be bi.

Love Lies Bleeding is Superb Sapphic Cinema

Posted by Jonny Kandell 

Just know Love Lies Bleeding is an apt title, with emphasis on the bleeding part! We are capable of giving so much heart and hurt, which Stewart's character (Lou) represents so well. Estranged from her mobster dad and plagued by a toxic past, Lou is just looking for the light. And shiny motivated bodybuilder Jackie is the perfect stepping stone for Lou to grow past her own self-hatred.

Gay Parenting Real Talk - I'm So Proud of You

Posted by Tom Tracy 

 Like the parent of any two-year-old, the word "no" is pretty common vernacular in our home.  "No, don't touch that."  "No, don't climb to the top of the bookshelf."  "No, don't stick your finger in the electrical outlet."  "No, don't pull the dog's tail."  "No! Stop hitting your sister."  "No! Don't bite."  You get the idea.  Of course, we need to correct these behaviors to save our two-year-olds from the behaviors that would likely result in an emergency room visit if not for interceding.  The question is, how do we counter-balance the impact of this negative reinforcement?  In our family, we are making intentional shifts in our language to balance the negative reinforcements with positive, affirming messages.

A Minor Change in the New Avatar Makes the Gays Happy

Posted by Jonny Kandell 

Nobody f*cking MOVE! Something new and gay has hit the Avatar universe. 

Gay Parenting: Real Talk - Making Mistakes

Posted by Tom Tracy 

Like other parents, my parenthood is filled with an equal share of "heart swell" moments and times that test your emotional resolve.  But, are there different expectations of gay parents?  Are gay parents held to higher standards?  

No One Needs to Suffer Alone

Posted by Alyssa 
Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and make healthy choices. Given the importance of our mental health, ...

We Love Las Culturistas

Posted by Jonny Kandell 

Read why Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang are co-hosting an iconic show that embraces queerness, pop-culture, and more!