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Are you awake? It's me.....Hero!

Years, years and even more years ago, I would take people's inventory for all the wrong reasons. It was to point out flaws, to feel superior and the reality was I was taking their inventory in order to avoid my own. Now however, after a lot of ...

Keep It to Yourself

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Do you remember your first crush? In all probability that is a person you became totally obsessed with. We all had first experiences which, at the time, we were sure were going to last forever. It doesn't matter when it took place, but it formed ...

Sunshine is Back!

Arriving at Camp Merry Heart, we are greeted by group of counselors including Amy. Amy, Adam's young blonde Australian counselor, told us to wait and she would go get Adam. Having a arrived at 1pm on the dot for pick up, not all the campers were ...

Answer Their Questions!

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ANSWER THEIR QUESTIONS! We all know that most heterosexual people can be dense at times. They might appear to be very accepting of us, but their questions often grate on my nerves. Sometimes it is best to ignore the question or comment, but at ...

Adam Wants to be a Rapper!

Adam wants to be a rapper! Adam says “ I can say nigger and bitch when I rap right?” “OMG, NO and you know I hate that word!” I reply. “What word?” “Nigger” “Dad” Adam says exasperated “I didn’t say nigger, I said NIGGA and that’s cool ...

The Reality of Design Star

Being fortunate enough to have been chosen as a finalist on this sixth season of the premiere interior design competition series, HGTV Design Star, is a super huge deal for me as a professional designer, a husband, a dad and not to forget, a gay man ...

WTFNJ?

WTFNJ? Where’s the Freedom? On a beautiful summer Sunday, we had the opportunity to attend a rally in Hoboken sponsored by Garden State Equality and Lambda Legal to raise our voices in protest. For as our brothers and sisters were getting legally ...

Don't Be So Sure!

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Don't be so sure when you start to assume who will be in favor of gay rights and who will be against them. An interesting discussion started here in God's Waiting Room about GLBT rights. The social worker who led the group introduced the subject ...